Why Don't You Just...

TAKE A KNIFE AND STAB IT RIGHT THROUGH MY HEART!!??


A friend once told me this whilst telling me of their relationship problems.


After 4 years in secondary school and currently in my fifth year, I've seen/heard my fair share of relationship problems of others.

From heartaches, to cheating, to rebounds, to secret admirers, to too many secret admirers, to too many admirers, to silently liking someone else, to break-ups the good and the bad, to proclamation of love, to rejections, anything problem related to this, you name it. I've probably heard about it before.

Now normally I would say, to avoid all this just do 1 simple step. DON'T GET IN A RELATIONSHIP!!

However, once you sit back and look at it, you realise that it's not that simple. I can give you a whole list of ways'/methods on how NOT to fall in love or at least not make it an issue, but I can't give a single piece of advice on how to solve it WHEN you're already in a problem.

The thing is, normally when you realise this problem you're already in it. So it's kinda pointless to heard about how to prevent it when you're already in it. Unless, you've heard it beforehand and yet you still get this problem. In that case, I call you stupid, cause you didn't listen to the advice given to you.

To you guys out there that cheat on your girlfriend, stuff it.
To you girls out there that cheat on your boyfriend, just cause guys do it doesn't mean you can.

I've come to realise that most relationship problems occur due to one side being unfaithful. I mean...seriously.. if you're gonna cheat on your boy/girlfriend, don't even get on in the first place. If you can be unfaithful to your partner, it clearly show that you don't love them enough. So why bother in the first place.

The worst sort of relationship problem is a love triangle. Don't get me started on this issue. The grief that is caused is torturing. And when you have some sad person outside the triangle, but liking someone in it, that sad person is just sad. My hat's off to you mate.

People always tend to give advice on how to handle these problems either based on their on experience or based on how other people have handled it.

What they don't know or know but still do it anyway, is that what this poor soul needs is not advice but a friendly ear and lots of time. The only thing that can really heal a broken heart, is time. It may take weeks, months, years in some cases, but in the end it's how YOU HANDLE it, not what advice other people have given you. Just cause it worked for them doesn't mean it'll work for you.

Some people have called me old fashioned or the type who thinks about long term relationships and many other things. And I'm proud to say that I am. I feel that, that was how it was in the past and that's how it should be know.

Sadly though.. with this mindset I'll probably be single till I grow old and die.. haha

Love is love because it isn't ordinary.


Ja-ne!!